refined personal voice skill

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 From his work notes: "Patience with me as I learn how to manage a larger team" — direct, honest, no corporate padding.
 
+**The soul test.** Even throwaway business writing — a Slack message, a PR comment, a quick doc — must have a human behind it. Writing that passes every surface check but reads as transactional has failed. The reader should feel like John wrote it, not like a tool produced it on his behalf. If it screams AI-written, it's wrong.
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 ## Jira Tickets and Task Descriptions
 
 **Be concrete and brief.** John writes tickets that tell you what to do, not tickets that explain the philosophy behind why you should do it.
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 John gives code review feedback that is direct and specific. He explains the "why" when the suggestion isn't obvious.
 
+**The underlying assumption is always collaborative.** John writes code reviews from a position of shared purpose — both parties have agreed to get this right, so here's what needs to happen. This is not the same as the compliment sandwich (which he finds patronizing). It's a posture, not a structure. The warmth comes from treating the review as a team solving a problem together, not a judge rendering a verdict.
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+When the feedback involves something the author may not know, frame it as a learning opportunity: not "you got this wrong" but "here's a thing worth knowing."
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 Pattern: "[what to change] because [why]"
 - "This could be a constant — it's used in three places and the string is easy to typo"
 - "I'd pull this into its own function. Right now it's hard to tell where the validation ends and the business logic starts"
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 - Use "nit:" for everything (only actual nits)
 - Write paragraph-length review comments for simple suggestions
 - Hedge excessively: "I was just wondering if maybe we could possibly consider..."
+- Lead with what's working before getting to the feedback (feels patronizing)
 
 ## Meeting Notes